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Shoes & Bags

Bow Heels Outfit Ideas That Look Grown-Up, Not Costume

Cream pointed pumps with satin bows at the toe and a thin ankle strap
In this article
  1. The outfits
  2. Three more easy formulas
  3. Burgundy bow heels
  4. When the bow gets lost
  5. What to look for when you buy
  6. Bow heels by occasion
  7. The bottom line

Bow heels are everywhere this season, from satin bows perched on the back of a stiletto to soft bows sitting right on the toe. They're also one of the easiest shoes to get wrong. Wear a bow heel with a ruffled dress, a bow in your hair and a bow on your bag, and the whole look tips from pretty to costume.

The fix is simple: let the bow be the one sweet detail in an otherwise clean outfit. Below are the outfits that work, what to pair with each color, and what to check before you buy. For more shoe and bag ideas, browse everything in Shoes & Bags.

What do you wear with bow heels?

Pair bow heels with simple, tailored pieces: straight trousers, a slip or midi skirt, dark denim or a plain dress. Keep the bow as the only statement detail, and repeat the shoe color once elsewhere in the outfit, in your bag, top or belt, so the bow looks intentional rather than random.

The outfits

Save the one closest to your wardrobe. Each look lists the pieces to pull it together.

1. Cream bow pumps with soft tailoring

Cream bow pumps look expensive with cream or camel tailoring. Keeping the whole outfit in the same light family lets the bow read as texture rather than trim, and the ankle strap adds a little structure so the shoe doesn't feel too sweet.

Wear it with: cream wide-leg trousers, a camel fine-knit sweater, gold hoops and a structured bag.

2. Black bow stilettos with a little black dress

Black satin stilettos with large bows on the ankle straps

The easiest evening formula there is. A plain black dress gives the oversized ankle bows all the attention, and the ankle strap keeps a high heel secure when you're on your feet all night.

Wear it with: a black slip or shift dress, sheer black tights once the weather turns, and a small clutch.

3. Tan bow block heels for all-day wear

Tan block heels with bows at the toe and a buckled ankle strap

If you want the bow trend without a stiletto, a block heel is the answer. Tan works with denim, olive, cream and every shade of brown, which makes this the most versatile pair on the list and the easiest to wear to the office.

Wear it with: straight-leg jeans, a crisp cream shirt and a brown shoulder bag.

4. Black bow heels with a black and cream midi

Woman in a black top and a cream midi skirt with a black bow sash, taking a mirror selfie

This is the one exception to the single-bow rule. When the bows are the same color, a bow sash and bow heels read as a matching set rather than clutter. Repeating black at the waist and the feet ties the look together, and the full cream skirt keeps it soft.

Wear it with: a fitted black top, a full cream midi skirt and black bow slingbacks or pumps.

5. A bow bag and bow heels, done carefully

Structured black tote bag with a black bow on the front

A bow on your bag and a bow on your shoes can work if everything else is plain and both pieces share a color. Think black bow tote, black bow heels and a coat with no other trim. Skip the bow hair clip on the same day.

Wear it with: a camel coat, black trousers and black bow heels.

Three more easy formulas

No photo needed for these; they work with any of the pairs above.

  • Dark denim and a white tee. Choose a cropped or ankle-length hem so the bow isn't hidden. It's the quickest way to make jeans look dressed up.
  • A satin slip skirt and a chunky knit. The knit cuts the shine, and the bow heel picks up the satin. Stick to one color family, like black on black or cream on camel.
  • A sweater dress with sheer tights. Tights in the same shade as the shoe make your legs look longer and let the bow stand out.

Burgundy bow heels

Burgundy is the color we keep coming back to for bow heels this fall, and it deserves its own guide. See our burgundy heels outfit ideas for what to pair with them, from camel tailoring to all-burgundy evening looks.

When the bow gets lost

Where the bow sits decides which outfits it works with.

Good fit
Bow placement
Toe bow: almost anythingBack bow: skirts and cropped hemsAnkle bow: dresses and cropped trousers

What to look for when you buy

  • Where the bow sits. Toe bows are the most versatile because they show under almost any hem. Bows on the back of the heel photograph beautifully but disappear under long trousers. Ankle bows need a skirt or a cropped hem.
  • Heel height. Block and kitten heels are the practical choice for long days and office wear. Save a high stiletto for events where you won't be walking far.
  • An ankle strap. Straps help keep pumps on your foot and stop heels slipping, especially on a pointed pump.
  • Material. Satin looks the prettiest but shows water marks and scuffs, so keep satin pairs for dry days and events. Leather and suede bows are easier to live with, and patent wipes clean.
  • A bow that holds its shape. A stitched, structured bow keeps its form. A floppy bow can look tired after a few wears.
  • Fit. Try heels on later in the day, when your feet are at their largest, so a snug pair doesn't pinch by evening.

Bow heels by occasion

  • Work. A tan or black block heel with a small toe bow, worn with tailored trousers or a knee-length skirt. Keep the rest of the outfit in two or three neutral colors.
  • Wedding guest. Satin bow heels in cream, blush or burgundy with a midi dress. Choose a block heel if the wedding is outdoors, so you don't sink into grass.
  • Date night. Black bow stilettos with a slip dress or dark jeans and a silky top. The bow does the dressing up, so skip extra accessories.
  • Weekend. Low bow slingbacks or kitten heels with straight jeans and a knit. It's the least expected way to wear the trend, and the most wearable.
  • Holiday parties. Burgundy or black satin bows with velvet, sequins or a simple black dress. Sheer black tights keep it polished in colder weather.

FAQ

Are bow heels still in style?

Bow heels are popular right now, and simple versions in classic colors like black, cream, tan and burgundy tend to outlast louder, more novelty styles.

Can you wear bow heels to work?

Yes. A low block or kitten heel with a small toe bow in black, tan or cream suits most offices. Pair it with tailored trousers and keep the rest of the outfit plain.

What color bow heels are the most versatile?

Black and tan go with the most outfits. Cream is lovely with light, tonal looks, and burgundy is the richest choice for fall and winter.

Can I try the look without buying new shoes?

Clip-on shoe bows are an inexpensive way to test the look on plain pumps you already own before committing to a pair.

The bottom line

Bow heels look best when the bow is the only sweet thing you're wearing. Pick a color you already wear, choose a bow placement that suits your usual hemlines, and build the rest of the outfit from clean, simple pieces. For the color we're loving most this season, read our burgundy heels guide.